Salem Singles - Online Dating in United States

First off, thank you for visiting and for taking the time to read this in its entirety.
House Keeping – I am very flattered by the number of messages and likes I have been getting but many would not be a match.
[b]Not A MATCH IF:[/b][i]
• If you want to send me naked pictures of yourself, I find it distasteful at best. In fact, If your profile has photos of you scantily dressed your not for me
• If you are so unsure that you are ready to commit to finding the right person that you have checked anything less than “looking for a relationship”
• If you swear uncontrollably, drinking is more important than the people you surround yourself with or smoke I am sorry it wouldn’t work.
• If you need to go out most nights dancing, concerts, casino… [/i]

[b]I’m not into dating for the sake of dating[/b]. My goal is a to find a person I want to be with the rest of my life! Someone who is a committed as I am and believes that marriage is a contract before GOD and to be taken seriously…Someone who has their moral compass intact, comfortable with being slightly vulnerable, open and lighthearted. The ultimate goal being to find a long term partner in which we FIT IN EVERY WAY THAT COUNTS TO US and are able to come together and unite SEAMLESSLY.... manifesting strength, perseverance, deep and soulful friendship, honor, loyalty, truth, acceptance and understanding.

[b]About Me[/b]
I am Physically fit (but not over the top), Highly Perceptive, Spontaneous (tempered with rational thinking), Outgoing (especially for an introvert), Optimistic, creative and Intelligent. I am very Passionate and Affectionate. I have been described as Sweet, Hard working, Thoughtful, Energetic and a very dedicated dad.

I have traveled the world and lived an exciting life; especially as an introvert. (More coming).I have a daughter who I love more than anything in the world and the right person for me would also have to be the right person for her. If that is scary, I understand.

I'm not looking to date or play the field. If you are not looking to find that special someone to spend life with please move on.
Saying I am looking for the one who completes me is a little cliché. I want someone who makes me laugh, who fits in with my family and I theirs. Someone who is confident, loving and above all trustworthy. That special someone with a big heart who is comfortable dressed for a ball as well as in a t-shirt and jeans. Someone who is as comfortable snuggling on the couch or content being in the same room. Someone who can put their phone down and not look at it for hours. [b]Someone to share glances with, gentle touches, sunsets and vacations with…

This part is important:[/b] For some my having a child is a game changer, especially with a young child, and that is ok. As with other responsible parents we no longer have to be right for just each other but right for each other’s children. [i]I want my daughter to see that love can stand the test of time if two people are committed. I want her to know what it is like to have two loving parents and to see what love looks likes and what being part of a loving family means. For this reason I don’t make this move lightly.[/i]

[b] more about me [/b]
I am an INTJ, making up one of the rarest groups of people of that personality type. It also means I am logical to a fault. Like other INTJ’s, a relationship is an investment. I can decide quickly who will work out and who will not. I make quick judgments, and once I decide on the one who will work, I am invested. I look out for those closest to me. If I enjoy something, I want you to be able to share the enjoyment. If I’m able to enjoy something and you aren’t with me, I spend the time wishing you were there to enjoy it too. If I find something I like, I want to either share mine or get one for you too. It’s another way I show affection. While the INTJ is draw to the ENFP like Bill Compton to Snooky the party girl is not for me. I would prefer someone who is INFJ or an NT including another INTJ. – but the right person is the right person regardless.

I am an honest and faithful person,loving and caring,open minded,loyal ,seeking happiness and fun loving individual who is very independent and career minded, with a very relaxed and sociable personality. I am mature,confident and enjoy life for what it has to offer.I love good restaurants. classy clubs/wine bars.etc. I,m very down to earth and unpretentious.i am looking for a serious relationship with the hope of more, if this is right.I am a beautiful ,loving,open minded woman who is seeking for a serious relationship.I can be sexy and classy. I am a passionate lover and a great friend. Willing to listen and learn. I am religious and dedicated woman. I keep a clean home, I am good cook, and well read.I have strong hands and a loving touch for my companion. I keep up on what's going on in the world, and I volunteer with relocated for the right person.I am good natured, responsible , fun loving, down to earth, attractive, uncomplicated, conservative and I have a great sense of humor. I care about others and I'm unselfish. I love to share, help and nuture others. I love to dance, cook, entertain and feed friends and family. I'm intelligent, adventurous and enterpreneural. I want a friend and a funny, fun mate to share the joys and sorrows of life, a true friendship, based on trust and based on us truly liking eachother. I am honest and caring, handworking lady, who is seeking for equally honest, caring, understanding and hardworking man. I love travelling, having fun, outings, meeting new friends and sharing ideas. i want someone that we will work mutually to making a good future.